It wasnt in my contract, but I really think it should have been.
Because I spend a good part of my day as a theology teacher in a Catholic high school answering one question, endlessly, day after day, year after year: Why go to Mass?
They could at least have warned me. All it would have taken was one little clause: Employee agrees to dedicate from one-half to three-quarters of her teaching time discussing why sitting in ones room and thinking vague thoughts about God while watching a tape of Dawsons Creek is not an adequate alternative for attending Mass.
And I dont mind, really I dont. After eight years of doing this and now dealing with two teenagers living under my very own roof who ask the same question, Ive got the answers down pat and can dismiss my students at the bell confident that they have at least a hazy sense that maybe going to church next Sunday wouldnt be a complete waste of their time.
I only wish the Church could give me a little help here. For no matter how hard I try, however eloquent, dynamic, or (at desperate moments) guilt-inducing I may be on Friday afternoon, on Monday morning my arguments have fallen flat and sunk into the muck, idealistic words overwhelmed by a depressingly powerful reality: Sunday Mass at the parish.
There are, I understand from what I read in cheery features in the Catholic press, parishes that are alive and vibrant, mythic places where the pews are spilling over with youthful joyous faces of the Future of the Church. Im beginning to wonder if theyre not just making it all up. Because by the time my Catholic high school students in my little part of the world reach me as seniors, if I take a poll on any given Monday, out of a class of twenty, perhaps five have attended Mass the previous weekend.
There are a lot of reasons, much studied by the experts in pastoral ministry. Adolescents are marginalized in parishes. Catholic churches dont put enough resources into youth ministry. Homilies are over their heads. The poor babies feel (gulp) left out. Theyre rebelling. Theyre busy.
There is something to all of that. But underlying teenagers complaints about how they dont get anything out of going to Mass is the same experience that drives adults away in droves”including many friends of mine, most of whom have gone through periods of being very active in faith, but now, well out of that emotional, post-conversion, post-Cursillo or whatever high, find themselves barely able to drag themselves to church on Sunday.
The Latin Rite Roman Catholic liturgy as it is offered in most American parishes at the end of the twentieth century is so stunningly, astonishingly trivialized that it is indeed, taken on the surface, a stultifying, uninspiring, and even faith-sapping experience.
This was Easter Sunday Mass at my parish this year. The setting is a beautiful new church”barely a year old. The environment is spare, but flawless. Theres no excuse for anything less than a prayerful, joyous liturgy here, even if it is 7:30 in the morning. The church is packed with the usual Easter crowds along with the normal padding of snowbirds whove been here in Florida since after Thanksgiving and will fly back up to Michigan and New Jersey next week.
I have no doubt that even those of us whove come out of no more than a sense of obligation and fulfillment of the Easter Duty have brought hearts open and ready to be touched by God. Weve come with our joys. We carry new babies and stand with people we love. Were filled with gratitude for health and love and life itself. Weve carried our sorrows with us here as well. We are alone because of divorce and death. We grieve for children on self-destructive paths. We struggle with alcohol or live with those who do. We watch our own health slip away and death approach. With Jesus, we have confronted death, and we are wondering, hoping”is there resurrection for us too, beyond our sorrows, beyond this darkness?
And we are ready to have someone point to what is in our midst and say, There it is, the peace you yearn for: everlasting Love given to you in what looks to be but mere bread and wine”gift, pure gift, questions answered, wounds healed, loneliness vanished, and death of every sort conquered.
But what is it we hear on this day?
A priest stands up to preach. He reminds us that it is Easter. That Jesus died for our sins and rose from the dead. He asks us if we believe in Jesus. Yes, the congregation answers wanly. He asks if we accept him as our personal savior. Yes, we respond a bit more strongly. Do you love him? Yes, again. I wonder if at any moment Tinkerbell is going to rise, revived and twinkling from behind his robes.
It being Easter, were now ready to renew our baptismal vows. At the end, the priest thrusts the missalette he has been using as his reference in leading us in the vows high in the air. This is our faith, he says, waving the missalette like hes bidding at an auction. I am struck by the symbolic power of the book in his hands”it is red and flimsy and flops weakly in his grasp. This is our faith . . . we are proud to profess it. Mass continues. We are in the liturgy of the Eucharist now, which doesnt have much room for improvisation”and therefore, damage”so we are blessed.
Up until the Communion meditation song, of course. The cantor”a middle-aged man with a pleasant voice”has centuries of Catholic musical heritage to select from for this celebration, including some very good contemporary compositions of depth and beauty. His choice, warbled along with an organ accompaniment, is nothing else but one of the classic 1970s youth group/holding hands/end of retreat monstrosities called Pass it On:
It only takes a spark to get a fire going
Thats how it is with Gods love
Once youve experienced it
You want to pass it on . . . .
At the end of Mass, the priest does a very odd thing. He asks us to stand and raise our right arms in a gesture of blessing”a practice thats become increasingly popular in Catholic churches and is distressing not only because of its questionable theology, but also because the net effect of the sight of a thousand people, right arms stretched forward seems unsettlingly . . . well, fascist, to put it bluntly.
Father then”and please remember this is Easter Sunday”plants himself in front of the altar and says, I would like you to bless me. Please pray silently as I speak. Jesus, I love you. I recommit myself to your service. I believe you are my savior. I love you. Go in Peace. No wonder my students dont want to go to Mass. Sometimes I dont either.
This year, I have begun taking my students to a Benedictine monastery about thirty miles away for their days of recollection. Its not a big monastery, and it is, in comparison to say, Gethsemani, rather informal.
But we take our vans up there, I preach at the kids, give them some activities, preach some more, let them discuss, and then take them to noontime Mass in the monastery chapel. It is by far the most memorable part of the day for them. This is not any high liturgy were talking about here. Its in a beautiful little stone church, the monks straggle in as the bells ring and theres not a lot of chant, but when they do sing, their voices are clear and strong and unwavering.
After lunch, we gather before we leave to talk about the liturgy. Almost all of them say they like what theyve experienced much more than Sunday Mass at their parish. Theres not all that other stuff going on. You could pray better. The music was cool. And, unbelievably, on the last retreat a month ago, an eighth grader came out with this one: In church on Sunday, its like its all about us or something. This was about God.
Whats happened, of course, is that over the past thirty years the central purpose of Catholic worship”the Eucharist”has been all but lost in a sea of concerns about community building, lay ministry, liturgical language, battles over music and statues, and yet more community building.
The Eucharist is what my students experience at the monastery. I love going to monasteries because, even though the monks are friendly, they really dont care whether youre there or not. Theres no need to welcome you and make you feel at home and involve you because thats not what theyre there for, and theyre assuming youre not either, so they treat you as a mature adult who doesnt need to be manipulated and cajoled into a religious experience. And these Vatican II grandbabies are yearning for just such a Mass, even though they cant articulate it. My seniors were born in 1980; in their lifetimes church has been about everything else in the world except Eucharist.
My students dont want to go to Mass because they dont, indeed, get anything out of it in the way theyve been taught to expect. They have been taught”by words, and more importantly by silence”that religion is basically an emotional response, either to good music, effective preaching, or a feeling of belonging to a community. The problem is, they can find all those things elsewhere”better music, preaching, and youth groups in the Protestant churches, better community with a group of friends theyve freely chosen. Further, even when they come, we throw trivialities and distractions at them and everyone else.
This is, by the way, not about Latin, the Tridentine liturgy, statues, or which way the priest faces. Before the reforms of Vatican II, Flannery OConnor wrote of a man she knew who had converted to Catholicism because, he came to believe, Jesus must really be present in the Eucharist”otherwise, since the Catholic liturgy was regularly so dreadfully and mechanically done, no one would keep coming.
The problem, as Thomas Day wrote in Why Catholics Cant Sing , is more about ego than anything else. The liturgical reforms, as they evolved in our country, had the effect of putting ourselves”the presider, as well as the congregation”at the center of liturgy, pushing God enthusiastically out of the way. Im here to testify that it didnt work.
When I first started hearing that question”Why go to Mass?”I understood it as nothing more than argumentative teenagers looking for a fight. But now, after years of teaching, reading spiritual journals, and listening to their very real struggles to find God, I hear the question much differently. Ive come to see that these kids are like all of us. Theyre asking because they want me to give them a reason to go”they know there must be, but its just not evident to them in their experience of parish liturgy.
Those Vatican II grandbabies are desperately hungry. The tragic thing is, the nourishment they need is right in front of them, but those of us with the power to share it with them are too busy feeding them trifles of our own creation to be of any help. Its junk food that looks attractive for a moment, entertains and satisfies the egos of those in charge, but has left an entire generation empty, groping, and vulnerable.
The feast is there, but were blocking their view of the table with our own arrogant presence, demanding that they bless us and our own shabby efforts rather than trusting in the simple, profound gift God has already given to do the work of grace in the joys and sorrows of our childrens lives.
Amy Welborn, a regular contributor to Our Sunday Visitor , is a teacher and freelance writer living in Florida.