That said, it seems right to me that we shouldn’t find it inexplicably weird to pray before sex, at least sometimes – maybe on the wedding night or anniversaries, if that seems appropriate. But recognizing that sex is a prerogative of marriage and part of a sacrament doesn’t require saying a special prayer together every time. Still less does it require thinking that that prayer is “sexy.” It’s the latter remark that’s really weird. Of all the things that a prayer might be, even this prayer, why should our measure of approval or regard for it be taken by whether or not we find it “sexy.” Please.