To the many readers who have been wondering about a Mass for Richard John Neuhaus as we near the anniversary of his death:
A memorial Mass will be held on Friday, January 8 at 7:30 p.m. at St. Patrick’s Cathedral at 460 Madison Avenue in New York City.
Celebrant: Archbishop Celestino Migliore
Homilist: Rev. George Rutler
Post-Communion Reflection: Rev. Benedict Groeschel, CFR
January 1st, 2010 | 10:11 pm
Here’s a prayer in absentia for his memory. I first heard of RJN in the mid 80s, in an interview in The Wittenburg Door. Later on I discovered First Things, and even themed my blog as an appreciation of the FT for awhile. Light a candle for me, for he became part of my inner furniture when I was at an age where he could do the most good, though he never knew me. Matter of fact, if it’s not too late, let me suggest you include this sentiment:
“When you remember me, it means that you have carried something of who I am with you, that I have left some mark of who I am on who you are. It means that you can summon me back to your mind even though countless years and miles may stand between us. It means that if we meet again, you will know me. It means that even after I die, you can still see my face and hear my voice and speak to me in your heart.
“For as long as you remember me, I am never entirely lost. When I’m feeling most ghost-like, it’s your remembering me that helps remind me that I actually exist. When I’m feeling sad, it’s my consolation. When I’m feeling happy, it’s part of why I feel that way.
“If you forget me, one of the ways I remember who I am will be gone. If you forget me, part of who I am will be gone.
“Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom,” the good thief said from his cross (Luke 23:42). There are perhaps no more human words in all of Scripture, no prayer we can pray so well.”
–Frederick Buechner