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	<title>Comments on: First Links &#8211; 12.29.11</title>
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		<title>By: Blake</title>
		<link>http://www.firstthings.com/blogs/firstthoughts/2011/12/29/first-links-12-29-11/comment-page-1/#comment-56916</link>
		<dc:creator>Blake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 17:20:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;i&gt;However, if you object to gay adoption because children are somehow deprived of a parent of a particular gender, do you also object to adoption to single pareusnts (so long as they are single)?&lt;/i&gt;

Yes.

If you&#039;re not ready to actually provide for the child&#039;s needs, you&#039;re not ready to be a parent.

It is not rational to assume that because adoption &#039;works&#039; when we adhere to a &quot;child&#039;s best interest&quot; standard, that adoption will continue to &#039;work&#039; without such a standard.

Adoption is supposed to be about finding a good home for a needy child, &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; about finding a good child for a needy home.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>However, if you object to gay adoption because children are somehow deprived of a parent of a particular gender, do you also object to adoption to single pareusnts (so long as they are single)?</i></p>
<p>Yes.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re not ready to actually provide for the child&#8217;s needs, you&#8217;re not ready to be a parent.</p>
<p>It is not rational to assume that because adoption &#8216;works&#8217; when we adhere to a &#8220;child&#8217;s best interest&#8221; standard, that adoption will continue to &#8216;work&#8217; without such a standard.</p>
<p>Adoption is supposed to be about finding a good home for a needy child, <i>not</i> about finding a good child for a needy home.</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jan 2012 19:58:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I must agree with you Blake.  If someone&#039;s looking to place blame in all of this, let&#039;s recall that there would be no need for a single adoption agency if heterosexual parents weren&#039;t abandoning their own children at the rate they are.  

However, if you object to gay adoption because children are somehow deprived of a parent of a particular gender, do you also object to adoption to single parents (so long as they are single)?  Does a Catholic agency have a moral imperative to deny adoption to a single parent? After all, both situations deprive a child of a parent of one gender or the other, yes?  In addition, studies show that children definitely do not fare as well in single-parent homes as they do in homes with two same- or opposite-sex parents (in areas such as peer and social interactions, intellectual growth and personal integrity ... crime is more frequently seen in children of single parents).]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I must agree with you Blake.  If someone&#8217;s looking to place blame in all of this, let&#8217;s recall that there would be no need for a single adoption agency if heterosexual parents weren&#8217;t abandoning their own children at the rate they are.  </p>
<p>However, if you object to gay adoption because children are somehow deprived of a parent of a particular gender, do you also object to adoption to single parents (so long as they are single)?  Does a Catholic agency have a moral imperative to deny adoption to a single parent? After all, both situations deprive a child of a parent of one gender or the other, yes?  In addition, studies show that children definitely do not fare as well in single-parent homes as they do in homes with two same- or opposite-sex parents (in areas such as peer and social interactions, intellectual growth and personal integrity &#8230; crime is more frequently seen in children of single parents).</p>
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		<title>By: Blake</title>
		<link>http://www.firstthings.com/blogs/firstthoughts/2011/12/29/first-links-12-29-11/comment-page-1/#comment-56795</link>
		<dc:creator>Blake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Dec 2011 21:48:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;i&gt;Rather interesting — the quoted outrage is over tax dollars rather than tithe dollars. Perhaps “love” does not entail support in real terms.&lt;/i&gt;

Or perhaps men and women ought to be supporting each other when they make babies together, instead of trying to pretend that children don&#039;t suffer when they&#039;re forced to pretend that having &quot;two daddies&quot; is just as good as having &quot;two mommies&quot;.

Think about it: if men and women actually supported each other  - instead of treating babies like designer luxury items - maybe there wouldn&#039;t be so many kids being abandoned and thus needing adoptive parents in the first place.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Rather interesting — the quoted outrage is over tax dollars rather than tithe dollars. Perhaps “love” does not entail support in real terms.</i></p>
<p>Or perhaps men and women ought to be supporting each other when they make babies together, instead of trying to pretend that children don&#8217;t suffer when they&#8217;re forced to pretend that having &#8220;two daddies&#8221; is just as good as having &#8220;two mommies&#8221;.</p>
<p>Think about it: if men and women actually supported each other  &#8211; instead of treating babies like designer luxury items &#8211; maybe there wouldn&#8217;t be so many kids being abandoned and thus needing adoptive parents in the first place.</p>
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		<title>By: SteveP</title>
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		<dc:creator>SteveP</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Dec 2011 16:42:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The NYT article has: &lt;i&gt;Tim Kee, a teacher in Marion, Ill., who was turned away by Catholic Charities three years ago when he and his longtime partner, Rick Wade, tried to adopt a child, said: “We’re both Catholic, we love our church, but Catholic Charities closed the door to us. To add insult to injury, my tax dollars went to provide discrimination against me.”&lt;/i&gt;

Rather interesting -- the quoted outrage is over tax dollars rather than tithe dollars.  Perhaps “love” does not entail support in real terms.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The NYT article has: <i>Tim Kee, a teacher in Marion, Ill., who was turned away by Catholic Charities three years ago when he and his longtime partner, Rick Wade, tried to adopt a child, said: “We’re both Catholic, we love our church, but Catholic Charities closed the door to us. To add insult to injury, my tax dollars went to provide discrimination against me.”</i></p>
<p>Rather interesting &#8212; the quoted outrage is over tax dollars rather than tithe dollars.  Perhaps “love” does not entail support in real terms.</p>
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