John Grondeleski at Homelitics & Pastoral Review takes an opportunity to clarify the Catholic Church’s teaching on the subject of cremation, an option that has slowly and steadily been replacing the traditional funeral for many Americans.
the Church rescinded its prohibition on cremation in 1963, and Catholic acceptance of cremation is fast mirroring the general population. In light of the seemingly growing Catholic acceptance of cremation, it is appropriate for priests to bring some points to the attention of the faithful. While November, with its focus on prayer for the dead, seems especially appropriate, the pastoral need to address this phenomenon is year-round.
Hence the qualification:
The first point that merits emphasis is simply that the Church does not consider earth burial and cremation equally valid methods of dealing with the body of a deceased Christian. The Church considers burial to be its norm; cremation is an exception.
For a long time, those who chose cremation did so for ideological reasons: they were often materialists, intent on rejecting the Christian notion of the dignity of the body and its doctrine of the resurrection of the dead. Belief in such principles was obviously incompatible with Catholic faith. When the Holy Office lifted its prohibition on cremation in 1963, it did so because it judged that now other reasons (e.g., limited land) motivated people seeking cremation, reasons that had nothing to do with explicitly rejecting basic elements of Christian anthropology and eschatology.
At the same time, the Church did not say that cremation was now the functional equivalent of burial in terms of dealing with Christian remains.
At one level, it’s not surprising to see the growth of this trend. Though it’s largely alien to the Catholic faith, cremating a loved one rather than holding a funeral seems to play into longstanding American tendencies, including a disdain for formality and ritual, and towards the abstraction of human existence from the clumsiness of immediate, incarnated reality. And while it’s true that our resurrection does not depend on having a perfectly-preserved corpse (or, as Paul notes in Corinthians, that our “natural” body precede a “spiritual” one), this is a far cry from seeing the body as unimportant or treating the physical and the spiritual as unintegrated.
American Catholics, it seems, have read a subtle shift in Church teaching as a wholesale reversal; the situation parallels, as Grondeleski points out, the confusion surrounding the continuing obligation of Friday penance. Yet the reality is more nuanced, more cautious, and more countercultural.




March 7th, 2012 | 3:52 pm
“cremating a loved one rather than holding a funeral seems to play into longstanding American tendencies..”
Is it really the case that you can’t have a funeral if the person has been cremated? I know you are supposed to have the body of the deceased one at the funeral, but couldn’t you wait to hold the funeral until you have the cremated remains?
I’ve been to a “memorial service” mass for a person who was being cremated, but the timing was such that the remains weren’t present. Had they waited, couldn’t a funeral mass be arranged with the urn in place of a casket?
March 7th, 2012 | 8:38 pm
The devout Roman Catholics in my family have been thankful to have the option of cremation. It is always accompanied by a funeral and the singing of Ave Maria. They’re all in their eighties, and I really should ask why they are so palpably grateful. The unspoken attitude seems to be that there’s something degrading or wasteful about burial. I’m only guessing, however. I really don’t know what’s behind the enthusiasm for it.
March 8th, 2012 | 3:02 pm
In response to Sally above: When my father died, we had a regular funeral Mass and he was cremated afterward. It isn’t an either/or choice of “cremating a loved one rather than holding a funeral.” It does not, or at least does not have to, work that way.
The richness of the funeral liturgy is, I believe, lost when the body is not present, and somewhat diminished when cremated remains are present. The way we did it made the most sense to us, though I will say that when, after the Mass is over and the hearse drives off to the crematory and you wait for the funeral director to call you and tell you the cremains are back, you do feel like you’ve been left hanging a bit, ritually speaking.
And yes, my dad felt that burial was wasteful, primarily in terms of taking up real estate that has to be perpetually maintained as well as what he called the “expensive accessories” of burial (coffin, vault, etc.)
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