“When I lie on my back and look up at the Milky Way on a clear night and see the vast distances of space and reflect that these are also vast differences of time as well, when I look at the Grand Canyon and see the strata going down, down, down, through periods of time which the human mind can’t comprehend . . . it’s a feeling of sort of an abstract gratitude that I am alive to appreciate these wonders, when I look down a microscope it’s the same feeling, I am grateful to be alive to appreciate these wonders.”
These moving, and ostensibly sincere, words were pronounced by Richard Dawkins at the “Atheism is the new fundamentalism” debate staged by the U.K.-based organization Intelligence Squared in November 2009. Spoken in a deliberate tone and convinced demeanor, these words interjected a dissonant note to Dawkins’ otherwise fairly consistently crafted atheistic and anti-religious presentation. Elsewhere, the evolutionary biologist has described his feeling of “exultation,” and the “overwhelming feeling of being” elicited by his experience of the natural world. Wonder, exultation, overwhelmed—all empirically appropriate and logically suitable responses to the magnificence of the universe. But, gratitude?
Unlike “being comfortable,” which requires the preposition with (as in “I feel comfortable with these shoes”), if any, “being grateful” calls for a to another person. Gratitude is not a self-enclosed or self-sufficient feeling but a human person’s response to another person or persons—whether human or divine—for benefits, gifts, or favors received from them, such as the gratitude due to caring parents, loving friends, and dedicated teachers or mentors. As Kant succinctly observes, “The duty of gratitude consists in honoring a person because of a benefit he has rendered us” (italics added). When gratitude is due to a country, an organization (e.g., a school, a hospital, a shelter), or some other collective, it is owed to them as communities of human persons, not as impersonal institutions.
Dawkins might reply that he is grateful for the Milky Way and the Grand Canyon. Being grateful for a good, an event, or a state, however, presupposes a gift-giver. Those grateful for a promotion or applause, their health or their sufferings, are, albeit implicitly, grateful to the persons who brought about the event or state. “Abstract” gratitude, therefore, is as meaningless as abstract piety, as oxymoronic as abstract repayment. Gratitude without a benefactor is as incongruous as a refund without a payer.
The recipients of gratitude are not abstract, but concrete persons who, even if no longer physically with us, live on in our thankful memories. Gratitude that is not deliberately aimed at a person—human or divine—whose gifts or favors deserve it is not gratitude at all, but complacency, conceit, pride, pleasure, or wonder and awe at best.
Nor can Dawkins claim to be grateful to himself. Thanking oneself is hardly reasonable. As St. Thomas Aquinas explains, “In things that one does for oneself, there is no place for gratitude or ingratitude, since a man cannot deny himself a thing except by keeping it” (Summa Theologica, 2a2ae, 106). One may feel surprised, satisfied, joyful, happy, proud, even self-congratulatory, but “self-thankful” is, plainly, inconsistent. Thanks are reserved to the other—to the parents for their understanding and support, to the special friends for their encouragement, to the mentors for their patience, to the boss who granted the unique opportunity.
We may be happy to be alive; but if also grateful to be so, it must necessarily be to the Giver of that gift. If “nature” is “thanked,” it is, in reality, in an anthropomorphic or personalized guise. If natural selection or sheer luck developed the Milky Way and the Grand Canyon, why should gratitude be felt at all? An impersonal, inevitable, or chance benefit is not a fitting recipient of gratitude. Gratitude entails humbly reaching out, acknowledging, appreciating, and even honoring the benefactor by means of thankful words, gestures, deeds, goodwill, or material signs—a card, memento, or some token of heartfelt recognition.
According to Aquinas, since “every effect turns naturally to its cause,” and a benefactor “is cause of the beneficiary, . . . the natural order requires that he who has received a favor should, by repaying the favor, turn to his benefactor according to the mode of each.” That is, the virtue of gratitude entails that the recipient ought to repay the giver with spontaneous “affection of the heart” in a manner commensurate with the gift received.
Since the nature of the “debt” depends on its causes, the gratitude owed to God (“the first principle of all our goods”) is the greatest, followed by that owed our parents, persons “excelling in dignity,” and other benefactors. The response to these human persons can be disproportionate, degenerating into vices such as flattery or exhibitionism, besides ingratitude. Excessive gratitude to God, however, is inconceivable. To the Gift-giver, the Giver of all being, a worshipful “grateful to be alive to appreciate these wonders” is called for.
In his outburst of gratitude, the famous atheist was not thanking his parents, his family, his teachers, his friends, his followers, nor even an anthropomorphous nature. He certainly was not irrationally thanking himself. In Orthodoxy, G. K. Chesterton tellingly confided his own experience of gratitude: “The test of all happiness is gratitude; and I felt grateful, though I hardly knew to whom.” Does Dawkins know?
Alma Acevedo teaches courses in applied ethics.
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I think, actually, that it's a deeper look at what, precisely, gratitude is, and how, as a feeling, it is experienced with regard to others (individual persons, groups of persons, etc...) To explore the relational and philosophical underpinnings of any particular "feeling" is not to denounce or destroy the feeling, neither is it to suggest that such feelings are inappropriate or unwarranted or "not allowed."
If I say to a friend, "I feel sad when I hear about an animal being mistreated," and she then decides to write an article about what "sadness" is, where it comes from, how it is generated when the object of the sadness is known personally to the "feeler" vs. when it is unknown, and so on, she is not attempting to take away from my feelings, to tell me that it's dumb to feel sad for a dog I never met, or to suggest that I do not, in fact, feel what I think I feel. She's simply exploring the concept of sadness.
As for Mr. Dawkins, gratitude is, in fact, probably "the best articulation of a feeling he otherwise could not communicate." And praise God for that! Indeed, "the Spirit intercedes for us, with sighs too deep for words." Alleluia! (Yes, even in Lent...)
I believe the point is to show that his genuine feelings, and his description of them, do not comport with his own account of his beliefs about the nature of reality. It is probably up to Dawkins to figure out where the problem lies that creates this disconnect, but surely pointing out the disconnect is not an illegitimate enterprise, especially in the case of someone both so prominent and so self-referential an advocate for his particular views.
This piece is not being disingenuous: it is simply reminding us that words have meaning. Gratitude is a response to grace––gratia––and a gift necessarily requires there be a Giver. Dawkins is not forbidden from using the word, but doing so is, philosophically, as impressive as asserting, scientifically, that, since we see the sun rise, therefore the sun really does move around the earth. Better for him and others just to use "lucky" or "groovy."
"The worst moment for the atheist is when he is really thankful and has nobody to thank." -- Dante Gabriel Rossetti
Indeed, we know that humans are intensely social creatures, and indeed we have a tendency to attribute things to minds that don't come from minds. More - things that on an intellectual level we know don't come from minds.
Looking for someone to thank when something good happens is hardly a surprising instinct under such circumstances. (Imagine the prospects for someone who never thanked anyone for anything...)
Feeling gratitude for things that one knows, intellectually, were not given by anyone may be 'incongruous' or 'dissonant' - but is not a sign of insincerity or repression.
Consider - almost every human being, religious or not, engages in superstitious rituals sometimes. How many Christian athletes who know in their hearts that God is in control, yet still wear their special shirts or avoid shaving or only pick up a bat with their left hand before the big game? They aren't being unfaithful... they are simply being human.
She would be if she argued that you cannot in fact feel sad about animals being mistreated, which would be the analogous situation. Acevedo doesn't just explore gratitude, a definition is created which precludes Dawkin's feelings altogether. Hence the essay's title. He cannot feel as he does and remain an atheist, in good conscious. There's cognitive dissonance there. It's not an innocent project.
Or, to put it another way, does the defense of irreligion require that Dawkins be right, all the time, about everything, that he never be conflicted, or that he never present himself in a way that does a disservice to his own views? Sometimes that's the feeling I get when issues like this get raised.
What I was disputing was the conclusion to be drawn from that. I was pointing out a potential explanation Dawkins could turn to for what "creates this disconnect" that didn't involve god(s).
There are definitely aspects of Dawkins' positions that can be legitimately criticized. For example, I think he underestimates the positive impacts religion has had across history. But when I think a criticism misdirected or overstated, I don't feel overly defensive in pointing that out.
In some ways in fact, atheism is a new fundamentalism. And indeed has something in common with oldtime religion. But to be sure, it has a slightly different idea of our creator.
By the way, the authors of the American Constitution lived in an era when some people were considering a possible relation, between God, and Nature. A concept that found its way into our founding documents; when they acknowledge the "laws of Nature and Nature's god." And that concept continued partially in Catholic theology, as "natural law."
This link between religion and atheism should in fact, make Atheism a bit more understandable for religious traditionalists. Who should after all, simply celebrate this link. And ideally, humbly, and without the usual gloating "I told you so" attitude. Since, if there is such a link? Then after all, Atheism is not merely rediscovering what Catholics always knew; but adding a new layer to it.
In a way, such moments confirm old religious beliefs. But in a way though the New Atheism also seems it is trying to improve and update them. In ways Catholics need to understand.
This isn't just modern atheists rediscovering old truths, exactly. It's atheists ... discovering a whole new layer on top of, or underneath, the old beliefs.
Dawkins' statement is at a minimum ironic. It may be no more than that, as the language of feeling and impression may simply not be precise enough to make his distinctions. But he said what he said, the words mean what they mean (and no, Acevedo is not producing any idiosyncratic or convenient definition here), and they do indeed suggest that Dawkins does not have full insight into all his thoughts. It would be odd if he did, as none of us have the self-awareness we pretend to.
Is Acevedo picking on Dawkins a bit? Perhaps, though he can hardly complain when he puts his chin out so often. But the shrillness of the defences here speak volumes. Listen louder, or we might think you (gulp) illogical, and prone to cultural biases in your beliefs. Just for the record, leaping into the comments in a bullying tone is not usually effective here. In some places, people are impressed by it, and change their views so that they can be thought smart. If that situation is more familiar to you, it should give you pause.
I have participated in a number of other religious forums, and the topic of atheism has come up rarely. Here, though, there seems to be kind of at least mild preoccupation with atheism that gives me the sense that some are uncomfortable with atheists, perhaps because they feel insecure about their own belief when there are people who don't share it.
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From Webster's, in context, the definition of gratitude is
1a : appreciative of benefits received
There is nothing there about having to be grateful TO someone, or something. All that has to happen is that you receive something you perceive to be beneficial, and that you're appreciative of that. The active verb is appreciate, and you can appreciate something all by yourself, no counterparty required. You can be grateful FOR a starry sky without being grateful TO the sky for being starry, or conversely grateful TO a person for helping you without being grateful FOR that person in general.
In this case, I was grateful my accident wasn't worse because I appreciate not being in a wheelchair. I suppose I'm also grateful I haven't been devoured alive by a radioactive plague of carnivorous cockroaches. Who should I be thanking for that?
Now if you believe in an all-powerful and divinely intervening God, then perhaps you will argue that everything ultimately comes from God, so I should express my appreciation for not being in a wheelchair or eaten by cockroaches there. Not so fast. Should I thank God it wasn't worse? Or should it be Satan I'm thanking, for not hurting me more? Or should I resent God for the ongoing pain in my shattered vertebrae? Is God punishing me for my many (many) sins? Should I start loving God lest I get another good, hard sin-punishing? And isn't someone who punishes you for not loving them enough called a domestic abuser?
I'm sorry, but that's too muddy for my little brain. I'm going to stick with a generalized, undirected gratitude for still being able to walk, and while I'm at it, I'm going to take a moment to share Richard Dawkins generalized, undirected gratitude for living in a completely empirical yet subtly non-deterministic universe. It's awesome.
And while Richard and I are appreciating the universe, Mark, you can be grateful I came into your life to correct your gross misunderstanding of the word 'gratitude'. I doubt you're actually grateful TO me, but as a good Christian I'm sure you'll work on it.
And of course you're welcome, I'm pleased to help. May the deity or deities of your choice locally alter the laws of physics such that the sun shines on you today.
Paul
I do not believe in a god or "Creator," yet when I look at the wonders of the world, I feel grateful in many different ways. Looking at the stars above, I am grateful for the knowledge and appreciation of what I am actually seeing. I am moved by the majesty of mountains and feel grateful for the ability to live in (or visit) a place with such beauty.
When I say that I am grateful for being alive, I do not mean that I am grateful that I was created by a supernatural god. I mean that I am thankful that I have survived this long and haven't yet been done in by any of the countless ways that people can die. I am grateful that I haven't been accidentally run down by a truck, shot in a store robbery or taken with a fatal disease.
From my point of view, it feels silly to limit a feeling of gratitude to situations where there is a person or entity in which to give thanks. Perhaps there are better words to describe this joy of being alive and ability to appreciate the world, but I do not see why the word "gratitude" should not apply.
To try to quibble over the meaning of a single word choice and use it to imply a dissonance in a person's beliefs (or lack of beliefs) is simply absurd.
Paul, just do more research before you make pronouncements. Gratitude, in nearly all its meanings, implies an "other." Your own definition, which has "appreciative," and "received" in it, both of which strongly imply an other. Words mean what they mean, and trying to strip them for your purposes does not change that.
This does not in any way prove that Dawkins is committing some grave inconsistency of belief and his entire belief-set is in shreds. But it IS an irony, it may be meaningful, it is worth examining for its implications, and it's fair game. That some atheists - and I assume that those who go blog-commenting are not a representative sample - feel that this is some dreadfully unfair attack and bending of meaning is thin-skinned in the extreme.
Note to Christians who might jump to conclusions about atheists from their blog comments (and I have to fight against it constantly, as that group shows the same personality traits repeatedly): Michael Novak had an article about types of atheists a few years ago that was quite calming. http://www.nationalreview.com/articles/223273/christmas-atheists/michael-novak
Agreed. And Dawkins' whole position is about his feelings. He is not known for precise language or close reasoning.
The implication here being that there are other universes in existence that we are not aware of. This could be argued if there really were parallel universes 'out there' somewhere, and that there was some method whereby we could actually gather data about them (according to current theory, there isn't, because they do not - and cannot - in any way interact with each other), so one is only left with the option of accepting this notion on faith.
The current popularity of the multiverse concept is largely based upon the conviction that it does away with any need to explain how, against all the odds, we are even here at all. If, as seems likely, there is only one universe - this one - then our existence is nothing short of miraculous, and atheism becomes impossible to adhere to.
Torontonian, you cannot just insert an assumption, one that has neither evidence nor reason to justify it, in an attempt to bolster a position that is otherwise untenable. This is what you have done here, and is a trick that many atheists use in the expectation that no-one will notice it.
Grateful
1
a : appreciative of benefits received
b : expressing gratitude
2
a : affording pleasure or contentment : pleasing
b : pleasing by reason of comfort supplied or discomfort alleviated
NONE of these meanings REQUIRE a counterparty to be used correctly.
However this article is predicated on the assumption that there MUST be a counterparty, and furthermore that the counterparty Dawkins is implying MUST be God (and not, for example Thor, mighty space aliens, or his mom). And of course it's predicated on Dawkins not making a minor grammatical error.
So if you really want to you can believe that this is what Dawkins really meant - disregarding both his strong stance against religion and his strong joy at the beauty of the universe. You can then believe that it's ironic he would say such a thing, and applaud the article's deep insight into this fundamental conflict in the poor man's God-denying character.
But if you believe in that, you'll believe in anything. Even prayer.
Paul
...and perhaps - just maybe - there are atheists who feel the need to resort to personal insults (as R. Dawkins does) because they have secret doubts about their own philosophical position regarding the existence or otherwise of God. I don't know this for sure, but it is easy to just speculate without anything to actually justify such speculation.
Well, actually, in my experience all he's guilty of is not using theological and philosophical jargon. For an example of an actual Christian philosopher completely misunderstanding and dismissing Dawkins because of that, see here: http://blogs.christianpost.com/tentativeapologist/2009/10/does-religion-lead-to-bad-parenting-30/index.html
Search for "10:22 am".
I don't disagree. I think it would be odd if the existence of nonbelievers didn't unsettle believers, if only just a little bit, and vice versa. I think what's important for both believers and nonbelievers is to recognize and accept in themselves doubts and insecurities rather than to fight those doubts and insecurities by becoming hostile and abusive to those who disagree with them.
Be grateful that "while we were yet sinners Christ died for us" and leave atheists alone.
Be grartefuk thjat "while we were still sinners Christ died for us,"
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Even the Wikipedia entry has quite a bit to say about the meaning of gratitude, both historically, and in more precise recent terms for research.
If you wish to go deeper, there's Kant, briefly noted above, and Hume as well, who made not only passing reference to gratitude and its meaning but considered it key to understanding the universe. Confucious among the non-Western ancients, and Terrance McConnell more recently, focus on gratitude as an understanding of both human society and the universe. All four of these - and perhaps this is where the comments section should have started, for clarity - focus on the opposite, on how ingratitude undermines society and understanding. Ingratitude can only mean "not giving some one or some thing the thanks that they are due." Thus the traditional meaning of gratitude, if that route is clearer.
Etymology and related terms are not conclusive, but are often illustrative. From L. gratus; thankful, pleasing - related to "grace"
As "feelings" in general are rather simple bodily processes, mediated by brain understanding for refinement, it is true that "gratitude" simply as a feeling is not any different from a thousand other positive feelings. From the neck down, we're just big frogs. We feel "good," much the same as an infant does passing gas, or a family does as they begin to eat dinner. It's rather primitive. If all you are saying is that Dawkins had a positive feeling, and this has no connection to any understanding of the universe, then I suppose one could hardly argue. But Dawkins chose specific language and concepts to work with, and when he did so he moved into the realm of common understanding of those words and concepts. One can know longer claim the idiosyncratic meaning as the true one. All contained meaning, whether denotative or connotative, are now in play - even the obscurer ones, never mind the more common, as we are discussing here.
Words change, as I said, and if there is significant energy among the secular to use the word "gratitude" to describe some vague feeling of approval, with no implied attention to source, over the next fifty or one hundred years, then the word will come to mean that, and our current use of the word will require a gloss for people to understand in 2111 that our use implied an other. No collection of letters has a necessary meaning which it must keep. It moves.
Nonetheless, at any given point, a word carries its common meaning when uttered, regardless of the speaker's intention. Whether you believe the word should require an implied other, or can be conceived in such a way that it's just a good feeling in the speaker's body, is irrelevant.
Thankfully, in this universe, chance and necessity share power. Water molecules bounce around randomly in a liquid, but somehow a puddle exactly conforms to the depression it's in. Air and water molecules bounce randomly into irregular dust motes... yet organized snowflakes form.
In a way the attempts over the years to come up with a "Theory of everything" has been an attempt to see through the clutter of relationships that characterize every element of the Universe in order to see or find that pure singularity from which everything has sprung. Your statement would seem to negate the entire way in which existence is manifested. I would venture to say that relationship is the very underpinning of existence for everything that anyone or any thing has ever experienced or could experience is the result of a relationship. Try to think of anything that is not in relationship and if you can then you have found what no one else ever has.
Ray Ingles replies
...in my experience all he's guilty of is not using theological and philosophical jargon.
Ye Olde Statistician answers
Perhaps. But doesn't that make it difficult to speak of matters theological and philosophical? He also talks of physics without using physics "jargon." But then geneticists like Shapiro and naturalists like Gould have also criticized him for his imprecision regarding both "genes" and "natural selection." Read THE SELFISH GENE for examples of massive equivocation on the term "selfish," the self-contradictions, and the invention from whole cloth of "memes."
Sometimes, it enables a whole lot of clarity, actually. A different paradigm uses different terms to refer to the same things.
But then geneticists like Shapiro and naturalists like Gould have also criticized him for his imprecision regarding both "genes" and "natural selection."
Popularizing does run the risk of imprecision, I'll grant.
Read THE SELFISH GENE for examples of massive equivocation on the term "selfish," the self-contradictions, and the invention from whole cloth of "memes."
Well, one of his key points was that 'seflishness' on one level could lead to unselfishness at a higher level. You can call that "equivocation" but it seems more like a misunderstanding to me. I strongly suspect that your (oddly unelucidated) "self-contradictions" are further misunderstandings. But since they weren't spelled out, I suppose I'll never know.
As to the invention of memes... he clearly and specifically stated that section was speculative. You don't have to like it but you can't claim false advertising there.
If the author wishes to claim 'god' they need a better proof than one slightly unwise word-choice from Professor Dawkins.
See if you can make a similar conjecture from 'clutching' and 'straws'...
Dawkins' statement poses an obvious inconsistency, and one which crosses the human need to feel gratitude (i.e., to love) with the atheists need to deny the transcendent nature of love.
We may be misunderstanding Dawkins here. Has he said anything to clarify his meaning? Did anyone at the "Intelligence Squared" debate in 2009 ask him to explain the inconsistency? Has anyone since? If so, has he responded?
I gather Mr. D is not shy about discussing these issues. Why no clarification?
What we are dealing with here is a Semantic change or shift... "Semantic change, describes the evolution of word usage — usually to the point that the modern meaning is radically different from the original usage."
The word's much broader meaning is used in much of secular society and most certainly in all freethinker's minds.
Those who wish to wait fifty or one hundred years, are "the usual crowd" who invariably need to be dragged kicking and screaming into the reality of modern usage and changed definitions.
This is how word definitions change, first in use then by the technical observance of that redefinition within society... and in some circles, long after the change comes awareness and grudging acceptance.
Anyone who cannot imagine Dawkins using "Grateful" in a much broader sense, and who somehow gain a modicum of comfort clinging to the buoy of it's "original meaning" are, dare I say, card carrying members of the "usual crowd".
That explains why the New! Improved! Up-to-Date! usage is less precise.
"need to be dragged kicking and screaming into the reality of modern usage and changed definitions."
It is of a piece with locutions like "mistakes were made" in place of "I made a mistake." It is a way of simulating emotions without actually engaging them. You are probably correct to note that Dawkins used the term "gratitude" in a vague and amorphous manner, or that "feelings" matter more than correct usage.


