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38 Ways to Make a Baby

From the time of Adam and Eve until the late 1970s, there was—with one notable exception—only one way to make a baby: the sexual bonding of a man and a woman. That number increased to two in 1978 after the birth of Louise Brown, the first “test tube baby.” Today, there are thirty-eight ways to make a baby, almost all of which can be accomplished without sexual intercourse.

Until the 1970s, “reproductive technologies” focused almost exclusively on helping a couple prevent conception. Although the tools ranged from the benign (thermometers) to the controversial (the Pill), most people understood both how they worked and whether their use could be considered ethical. Now that we have methods which sound like acronyms for U.N. agencies—IH, AID, ICSI, IUI, GIFT, ZIFT, IV—few people understand what they are, and even fewer know whether they are morally acceptable.

The rapidity by which the baby-making process has evolved has outpaced our moral reflection. While I lack the knowledge and wisdom to provide much guidance, there are few considerations, ranging from the personal to the linguistic, which I believe should guide our thinking about reproductive technologies.

The first is the duty to our neighbor. No matter what we think of the new methods for making babies, we should never dismiss the reason that they were created: to alleviate the pain and suffering caused by infertility, a “curse” that has plagued couples throughout our history. The Bible frequently mentions the problem of infertility and of the seven women mentioned by name who were barren (Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel, Hannah, Elizabeth, Michal, and Samson's Mother), six later bore a child. In each of these situations, Scripture implies that God was directly responsible for delivering them from a sad fate. Today, the 2.5 million couples that are affected by infertility feel the same strain, though they have the option of turning to technology for deliverance.

The number of people affected is humbling: After one year of sexual relations, 15 percent of American couples are unable to conceive a child. This inability can become emotionally trying and leads many couples to seek out medical solutions to overcome their affliction. Every year couples spend millions of dollars on reproductive technologies for the mere chance of conceiving a child.

For Christians, medical intervention to overcome infertility may be acceptable, providing that they do not violate established biblical principles, their church's teachings, or their own conscience in the process. This consideration will necessarily limit the types of options that are available, but there  a number of methods, such as the use of fertility drugs, that do not lead to the most morally repugnant outcome: the production of multiple embryos that must be discarded or frozen and placed in storage.

Whether out of ignorance or oversight, the pro-life community has until recently tended to overlook embryo destruction that occurs ex vivo. Unfortunately, though it has now caught our attention, we tend to oppose those who would destroy embryos for speculative scientific research while giving a pass to our fellow citizens who create “extra” embryos out of the desire to have a child.

But while the motives may differ, all created embryos have the same moral status and deserve the same level of protection from harm. The pain of infertility does not provide an exemption to this obligation.

Fortunately, the first options that most physicians would consider are the least objectionable. Methods such as gamete intrafallopian transfer (GIFT), zygote intrafallopian transfer (ZIFT), intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI), or in vitro fertilization can be approached in a way that is respectful of human life. Whether they are completely acceptable for Christians is a question worthy of debate. In the absence of clear scriptural guidelines, there are bound to be disagreements (I would almost always advise against their use, though I respect those who do not share my qualms). However, there are some methods and approaches that are indisputably unethical and temptations to act immorally abound.

A prime example is the routine practice of creating “excess embryos”, a practice that is common, though not essential, to IVF. The procedure is inherently expensive, often costing between $10,000 and $30,000 per treatment and the likelihood of success is dismally low. Even the best of techniques offers less than a 50 percent chance that a live birth will occur. Because of these obstacles, couples are often tempted to set aside ethical concerns in order to increase the chances of fulfilling their desire for a child.

Christian couples, however, should never be willing to unnecessarily sacrifice an innocent human life. The extra expense required not to may be substantial or even prohibitive. But the cost of destroying the embryo is even higher. It is never God's will that we kill one child in order to give life to another. If it cannot be done morally, then it must not be done. As bioethicist C. Ben Mitchell reminds us:


In some cases, it may not be God's will for a couple to have children. Infertile couples should not be made to feel like second-class humans because they cannot conceive. God may well have other good and gracious purposes for them[. . . ] Of one thing we can be certain, God has promised never to place more of a burden on us than we can bear (1 Corinthians 10:13).

This is an important point to keep in mind. Too often well-meaning friends and family add to this burden by inappropriate attempts to communicate sympathy. As bioethicist Matthew Eppinette and his wife Ginger explain, telling an infertile couple they can adopt or that they are fortunate not to have the burden of childrearing invalidates their feelings and mocks their suffering. Those of use who have experienced the wonders of pregnancy and the joys of childbirth should be especially respectful of those who have not shared in such blessings.

While we must be careful how we speak to our infertile neighbors, we also should be cognizant of the larger implications that our language has in framing the acceptability of these technologies. In his book, Toward a More Natural Science, Leon Kass asks us to,Consider the views of life and the world reflected in the following different expressions to describe the process of generating new life. Ancient Israel, impressed with the phenomenon of transmission of life from father to son, used a word we translate as ‘begetting’ or ‘siring.’ The Greeks, impressed with the springing forth of new life in the cyclical processes of generation and decay, called it genesis, from a root meaning ‘to come into being.’ . . . The premodern Christian English-speaking world, impressed with the world as a given by a Creator, used the term 'pro-creation." We, impressed with the machine [. . .] employ a metaphor of the factory, ‘re-production.’


When you stop to consider the differences between such phrases as “methods of procreation” and “reproductive technology” it begins to become clear why social conservatives are losing ground in the fight to preserve the concept of human dignity. Any attempt to argue that embryonic human life is deserving of a particular moral status is undercut when we are using phrases like “blastocysts produced by the technological advances of in vitro fertilization.” The language of the factory and of human dignity is as incompatible as would be the interchangeability of machine and life. Such degradation of language only leads to linguistic confusion and muddy thinking.

In welcoming Louise Brown into the world we ushered in an era of new ethical dilemmas, a Pandora’s box that includes human cloning, the creation of “designer” babies, and the eugenics of pre-implantation genetic diagnosis. Whether we create a dystopian future for ourselves will depend on whether we humbly accept our limits and fully understand our obligations. We may have 37 new ways to make a baby, but the purpose of baby-making remains the same: to bring into the world a human being created in the image of God.

Joe Carter is Web Editor of First Things and the co-author of How to Argue Like Jesus: Learning Persuasion from History's Greatest Communicator. His previous articles for “On the Square” can be found here.

RESOURCES

C. Ben Mitchell, The Challenges of Infertility: A Biblical Framework for Responding Appropriately

Ginger and Matthew Eppinette, Sound Advice? Communicating Sympathy to Infertile Couples

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Comments:

9.28.2011 | 2:14am
One of the best pieces ever on barrenness: Blessed are the Barren, by Sarah Hinlicky Wilson.
9.28.2011 | 2:23am
So often we pray for signs of God's will. Yet we turn our eyes away when we see a hint that His will is not ours. God, please help us to recognize Your will and to accept it. *Thy* will be done!

9.28.2011 | 9:10am
Artaban7 says:
So basically, modernity has managed to raise the cost of creating a child and eliminate the fun of it. And we call this "progress"?!
9.28.2011 | 10:39am
arty says:
Amen to Artaban's comment. Capital "P" "Progress" and Progressivism usually does seem to best at taking the fun out the enjoyable and replacing it with guilt. I will now console myself by excavating FT back issues for Neuhaus quotes on enjoying cigars.
9.28.2011 | 1:08pm
habeas says:
Why are we surprised that infertile Catholic couples desire children enough to utilize the technologies mentioned above? The repeated emphasis on marriage as procreative and unitive underlines the importance of bearing children within marriage. It seems irresponsible and inconsistent to place such an emphasis on successful procreation, then turn around and grant annulments to men whose wives are infertile, all the while telling infertile women they should patiently submit to God's will in the matter instead of seeking technological solutions. Either infertility is a problem severe enough to annul marriages, in which case additional solutions deserve consideration, or it is NOT severe enough to be a cause for annulment and both men and women must submit to God in the matter.
9.28.2011 | 1:51pm
Artaban7 says:
Habeas, there is only one condition under which the modern Church would grant an annulment because the women is infertile, and that's if she made herself that way and didn't want children, while the man did.

Secondly, the Church has been very clear that adoption is the preferable option, not IVF. The problem is, Catholic couples tend to have a hard time adopting because of certain rules (in America, agencies--gov't and otherwise--want to be prejudiced and match kids and parents based on skin color; in Britain, Catholics are discriminated against if they ascribe to Church teaching on sexuality).
9.28.2011 | 2:04pm
Joe, would love to discuss this with you!

I have issues with ART as it relates to the science and safety of IVF technologies. Certainly, I agree with some of your comments, but think we need a fuller understanding of what really is at stake and what are the facts of the various procedures.
9.28.2011 | 2:08pm
Sophia Mason says:
My dear habeas,

The Catholic Church may "grant annulments to men whose wives are infertile" but it does not permit annulments for that reason alone. I could imagine an annulment being granted to a man whose wife had knowingly concealed her infertility, but the grounds for annulment would be the concealment, not the infertility itself.

I know personally two infertile couples. In one case, the couple chose to adopt; they now have a very happy family of four children. (And, BTW, is it really so hard to love adopted family like your own flesh and blood? Doesn't one spouse usually love the other MORE than either loves their biological family?) In the second case, the couple decided not to adopt, but spent their 50+ year marriage in founding and forming an organization that does great educational and evangelistic work.

Neither of those marriages may have been procreative in the strictest physical sense. They were both tremendously procreative in the broader sense, in that they made "something beautiful for God". And in neither case would the beautiful thing (four children, great organization) have been produced by one person without the help of the other; the marriage was the essential foundation for both.
9.28.2011 | 2:09pm
paxillated says:
I love what the author said about language. Words, and how we choose them, are so important! Indeed, a baby is not a "production." He or she is a creation. Eventually, though, a fetus may become a production, when science learns how to pick and choose which bits of genetic material are allowed to combine into a new critter's DNA. I pray that we will have rediscovered morality by then.
9.28.2011 | 2:19pm
Joe Carter says:
@Jennifer Lahl ***I have issues with ART as it relates to the science and safety of IVF technologies.***

Me too. In fact, I have issues with almost all of these procedures which is the reason I would recommend never using any of them.

I should have delved more in the safety concerns with these technologies but I had to leave them out because of space considerations (the article is already too long). I thought it important to focus mostly on the ethical implications since I assume (perhaps mistakenly) that the concerns about safety are fully disclosed by the physician.

Of course it's probably naive of me to think that people who would set aside qualms about safety will give much credence to the ethical problems involved. But I hoping that if they know about the ethical and the scientific concerns, then it might tip them against the procedures.
9.28.2011 | 2:32pm
Jack says:
Artificial insemination--whether from the husband's or donor's sperm--was practiced before the 1970's.
9.28.2011 | 2:55pm
habeas says:
I appreciate the thoughtful comments above re: infertility and annulment. This is not what we were taught in pre-Cana classes in our archdiocese regarding the subject; we were taught that a woman's infertility was sufficient grounds in itself for the male to seek annulment. I am happy to find that I may have been misinformed by our pre-Cana teachers. Mr. Carter's original post refers to the insensitivity of suggesting adoption as an automatic equivalent to infertile parents which "invalidates their feelings and mocks their suffering." I'm thankful some people are blessed with successful adoptions as per Sophia's example above, but do wish more people would realize the importance of thoughtful language on the subject, especially on potentially painful days like Mother's Day and Father's Day.
9.28.2011 | 4:22pm
Artaban7 says:
Habeas,

I'm shocked and appalled that your Pre-Cana teachers told you that! I would definitely bring that to the attention of my pastor, but in a questioning, not accusatory way.

"Pastor, in Pre-Cana we learned that....is that true?"
9.28.2011 | 5:55pm
David Nickol says:
Joe Carter,

I am surprised no one has called you to task for being overly sensitive to the plight of couples dealing with infertility. I would have thought the attitude here would have been that no matter how deep the desire to have children of one's own, any way of making a baby other than sexual intercourse between a husband and his wife is against God's law. You are speaking less than the truth if you imply any of the new technologies that do other than increase the chances for sexual intercourse to produce conception are not gravely sinful. We may have sympathy for the infertile, but we must never give the impression they are justified in breaking God's laws to have a baby. There are worse things than going childless—like burning in hell for all eternity.
9.28.2011 | 9:48pm
Joe Powers says:
Maybe God's will is that the technology that provides a way for Barren couples to have a child be available.
9.28.2011 | 10:50pm
To Sophia Mason

"And, BTW, is it really so hard to love adopted family like your own flesh and blood?"

Yes, it can be.

I'm an adoptive father, with two "special needs" children. They are in their twenties, but will continue to have needs throughout their life. I won't claim to have been a great father, but I have tried to do my duty. Sometimes--God forgive me--I wonder where the warm fuzzy feelings are. We're told, of course, that love is an act of the will, and not emotion. Hmmmm.....
9.28.2011 | 11:19pm
I would like to add another perspective to this thread. There are treatments for infertility which are licit and extremely effective.

In the mid 1970's Dr. Tom Hilgers, a young, devout, Catholic Ob-Gyn at St. Louis University received a grant to study and standardize the Billings method of NFP. As he reviewed the charts which his patients brought to him he started to recognize interesting patterns. Certain patterns were always associated with infertility. With some charting patterns women could conceive, but would usually miscarry.

Now, more than 30 years of research later, he has developed a new medical science called NaproTechnology (Natural Procreative Technology) which is based on the Creighton Model of natural family planning. The research goes on at the Pope Paul VI Institute in Omaha, Neb. Hundreds of Creighton Model medical consultants (myself included) have been trained at the Pope Paul VI Institute. Using NFP, medications, and modern surgical techniques Creighton Model physicians treat infertility and a host of other woman's health problems.

The chances of achieving a pregnancy using NaproTechnology is better than with IVF (75-80% success rate over 5 years). The risk of side effects from these more traditional medical treatments is much less than with IVF as well. There is really no reason to resort to risky and immoral reproductive technologies.

Unfortunately, few mainstream physicians, and even fewer lay people know about this research. I believe that secular, mainstream medicine has shunned Dr. Hilger's research because of its close association with the Catholic church.

If you would like to know more about this topic access www.creightonmodel.com.
9.29.2011 | 9:37am
James G says:
Anyone interested in the subject of infertility and it's treatment should watch the DVD put out by Ignatius Productions: Echoes of Our Choice. It's a real eye-opener in regards to IVF, etc.

James G
9.29.2011 | 10:55am
Sophia Mason says:
Habeas, I wish I were shocked to hear that, like Artaban7, but I've heard too many stories of incomplete/false/insensitive catechesis. But yes, do approach your pastor if you ever have a question about something like that!
9.29.2011 | 11:22am
Sophia Mason says:
Dear won't give a name,

I'm sorry; that's a tough situation to be in. I come from a "mixed" family myself--some of us are biologically the children of my parents, and some are adopted. When I asked whether it was "really so hard to love adopted family like your own flesh and blood?" I was speaking from experience as well as rhetorically. No, the warm fuzzy feelings aren't always there; yes, love IS first of all an act of the will; and no, no, no, it is emphatically not easy to make that act when the situation is such as you have indicated.

If it's not cheeky, can I say two things? First, while not feeling "appropriately" is unpleasant, don't ever add to that unpleasantness by beating yourself up for your lack of feeling/negative feelings. I've seen many people who seem to think they're _obligated_ to like as well as love. Yes, we all wish we could like those around us, partially because life is much easier when we can; but "feeling good" is a perk of doing the right thing, not a sign of it.

Second (if you don't do this already, and if you are Christian), try meditating on Jesus in the Garden of Olives. In the garden he seems most like a modern westerner: not physically suffering, not yet, but under an immense fear of suffering, the sort of fear that non-saints like me understand well.

Again, sorry if this is preachy/nosy/etc.!
9.29.2011 | 12:01pm
micro says:
We were infertile for 7 years before we had our daughter. It was very difficult. Being surrounded by strong Catholics who were having many children (my brother/sister-in-law conceived and bore three children before our one - and they already had two before I married) makes it even harder. It is hard to sit in the pews and feel that people are judging you because they think a) you are contracepting, or b) not taking "advantage" of technology. Let's face it, even something like Clomid, which has few moral issues, can create further problems (multiple births).

After having our first, I looked into adoption because I am not sure we'll be able to have a second and would like my child to have a sibling. (I've always thought I would love having four kids). Catholic Charities in my area stipulates that you can only adopt if you have no more than one child in your home already. Unless some random sibling adoption came along, that would make it impossible to build a family of four children through adoption with Catholic Charities.

The biggest problem with suggesting adoption? To me, it's the total invasion of privacy. If you are able to have a baby naturally, you can choose (roughly) the time, place, how well the baby is treated, etc, and you get to provide in your home the way you want with perhaps only some criticism from the in-laws. But to adopt? Someone, or perhaps many people, will delve into your private lives, your finances, your home habits, etc ETC ETC. And it doesn't end after you bring the baby home. All the romance of creating a baby through love and bringing them into your own family disappears. I am thankful there are people who are willing to submit to this. I am angry that in our modern society that there is no trust of couples to take care of children who need it.

My experience, and this article, makes me think there needs to be more done to counsel couples about the trials of infertility. It was a hard 7 years for me and my husband, but it wasn't all bad. I cannot say I understand God's ways in our experience, but being obedient allowed us to avoid even greater suffering and possibly even sin.
9.29.2011 | 3:26pm
Adoptive Mom says:
I agree with everything above about how simply being Catholic and surrounded by a community of people who value having large families can make infertility even that much more difficult, but then adding the fact that reproductive technology is verboten makes the situation just so much harder, particularly when everyone else seems to be taking advantage of IVF without so much as a second though. Given this situation, one would expect that the Catholic church would do more to facilitate adoption. It doesn't. My first call when I began the complicated and expensive adoption journey was to the local Catholic Charities. I was given a reality check about the adoption process (They said they hadn't had a baby in years and noted that women/teens either keep them or abort them). My next call was to the local Archdiocese trying to determine if there were any other local programs to help Catholic couples adopt. Nope. We finally had success through a private adoption agency in Utah after conducting my own research and suffering some set backs. The adoption and the associated expenses added up to $46K when all was said and done. While chatting with someone in Utah about adoption, I learned that the LDS/Mormon church in Utah has a formal system for placing babies with adoptive parents offered at a small percentage of what we had spent. Why on earth wouldn't the Catholic Church, which is so clear on its opposition to ART (with sound reason) and so clearly supportive of adoption as an alertnative, offer Catholic couples this type of access to adoption? It makes no sense to me. I have spent many years with an ethical battle waging inside me over my infertility and whether I should do the right/Catholic thing and not access medical options. Perhaps if there was some actual support from the Church on adoption, more Catholics would choose that route.
9.29.2011 | 4:10pm
Pedro Erik says:
God bless you, fantastic piece.
9.29.2011 | 5:51pm
Dear Sophia Mason:
Thanks for your kind and thoughtful words. They were not preachy at all, but presented in exactly the right spirit.

Thanks again.
10.5.2011 | 2:10pm
Felicity says:
"Why on earth wouldn't the Catholic Church, which is so clear on its opposition to ART (with sound reason) and so clearly supportive of adoption as an alertnative, offer Catholic couples this type of access to adoption? "

I totally second your thoughts and question. At the same time that I favor complex procedures to ensure the safety of the child as much as possible, which will be at least somewhat onerous, I believe there must be better solutions for bringing the cost of the adoptive process down.

Another terrible consequence of the high cost of adoption is that it will be a discriminatory factor against infertile couples with low income. They do not deserve a cruel childless fate (meaning being barred from adopting), if they would like to give a child a family and a home. It is unacceptable.

Moreover, why do we even have children who have not been adopted? I think this speaks of the monstrosity of our world, the selfishness that is at the heart of many families, who only think of themselves, while being completely able to provide a family to an abandoned child, but who only turn their back to these children.
11.3.2011 | 10:30am
Elli says:
Thank you for your engaging and thoughtful article. I was curious about your reference to a verse in the book of First Corinthians (10:13), so I looked it up online and saw that it seems to be talking about temptation and God's providing a way out of temptations that come. It doesn't say that God won't burden us more than can bear, as your article purports. Do you know of Bible verses that do say that he promises not to overburden us? I realize this question isn't related to the main topic of your article. I'm just searching for answers to that kind of question, and I thought the verse you mentioned would answer it, but it didn't.
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