David Blankenhorn, who contributed greatly to the defense of marriage and suffered for the cause, confesses his current state of mind with this one sentence: As I look at what our society needs most today, I have no stomach for what we often too glibly call culture wars. Especially on this issue, I’m more interested in conciliation than in further fighting.
Regrettably, David has sought relief in a position that provides none. No one of sound mind supposes that same-sex marriage is being sought in order to bring sexual discipline to the homosexual culture (or the culture at large), or to enhance the institution of marriage and parenting. Whether it makes our stomachs churn or not, we must face the truth about the struggle that is under way and understand (as I have argued elsewhere) that no peace is to be had by capitulation. What is called for is rather a recovery of nerve, and a new willingness to deal with the problem at its root.
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