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			<title>Wedding Toast</title>
			<guid>https://www.firstthings.com/article/2016/02/wedding-toast</guid>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2016 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
			
			<description><![CDATA[<p>Here&rsquo;s hoping the years will be kind
<br>
and plenteous; through them you find
<br>
new charms in your lover,
<br>
and should you discover
<br>
a flaw, you&rsquo;ll be willfully blind.
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			<title>No Matter Where You Go . . .</title>
			<guid>https://www.firstthings.com/article/2015/06/no-matter-where-you-go</guid>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2015 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
			
			<description><![CDATA[<p>She texts atop Mount Washington
<br>
then switches to her headphones
<br>
when she descends the gulches of
<br>
the presidential deadzones.
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			<title>Drop-off Day</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2015 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
			
			<description><![CDATA[<p> Make sure you give yourself a chance to grieve,
<br>
 A parent handout helpfully suggests.
<br>
 My last one&rsquo;s gone; I thought she&rsquo;d never leave.
<br>
 Children at this stage in life are guests
<br>
 who have outstayed their welcome. Why deceive
<br>
 myself, pretend I&rsquo;m sad when empty nests
<br>
 are full of possibilities? Why mourn?
<br>
 I haven&rsquo;t had much peace since they were born.
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			<title>Prayer for a Meeting</title>
			<guid>https://www.firstthings.com/article/2013/10/prayer-for-a-meeting</guid>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 01 Oct 2013 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
			
			<description><![CDATA[<p> Come, Holy Spirit, fill me with affection 
<br>
  for sycophantic colleagues who pretend a 
<br>
  boss&rsquo;s remark is witty; the projection 
<br>
  of Power Points that stray from the agenda 
<br>
  with pie charts, false and darkly personal, 
<br>
  that narrow my dominion to a sliver, 
<br>
  and bullets saying things are worse in all 
<br>
  of my performance measurements. Deliver 
<br>
  your lamb to valleys where he&rsquo;ll safely graze, 
<br>
  or help me love your children at this table, 
<br>
  to hold my tongue, unless to sing your praise 
<br>
  in every situation, so I&rsquo;m able 
<br>
  to be content in everything, like Paul, 
<br>
  who loved those whom he didn&rsquo;t like at all. 
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			<title>Anniversary In-Sink-Erator</title>
			<guid>https://www.firstthings.com/article/2011/04/anniversary-in-sink-erator</guid>
			<link>https://www.firstthings.com/article/2011/04/anniversary-in-sink-erator</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 01 Apr 2011 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
			
			<description><![CDATA[<p> The stream beneath the site of our proposal 
<br>
 at Vista Valley Country Club&#146;s faux bridge 
<br>
 has brought us here to shop for a disposal 
<br>
 on Friday night at Lowe&#146;s on Sunset Ridge 
<br>
 uphill from Toys-R-Us. Our love was founded 
<br>
 and sealed when we agreed to wear these bands. 
<br>
 These symbols of infinity surrounded  
<br>
 the two of us in youth. Now we&#146;re old hands, 
<br>
 who throughout thirty years have learned to wipe 
<br>
 bottoms and tears, and that these rings of gold 
<br>
 are nothing more than tiny bits of pipe&rdquo; 
<br>
 expensive plumbing with a bent to hold 
<br>
 resentments since we plug them with our fingers. 
<br>
 Tonight we&#146;ll buy a ring where nothing lingers. 
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			<title>Time Management</title>
			<guid>https://www.firstthings.com/article/2009/06/time-management</guid>
			<link>https://www.firstthings.com/article/2009/06/time-management</link>
			<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
			
			<description><![CDATA[<p> Luther in the year he spent 
<br>
 as  
<em> Junker Joerg </em>
  in Wartburg towers, 
<br>
 translated the New Testament 
<br>
 to pass the everlasting hours. 
<br>
  
<br>
 Though living as a refugee 
<br>
 Erasmus wrote his tour de force. 
<br>
  
<em> In Praise of Folly</em>
&rsquo;s said to be 
<br>
 the product of a trip by horse. 
<br>
  
<br>
 With dinners late, D&rsquo;Aguesseau saw 
<br>
 an opportunity to write 
<br>
 his sixteen-volume work of law 
<br>
 in fifteen minutes every night. 
<br>
  
<br>
 Today I slept late, took a walk, 
<br>
 sipped coffee on my ragged lawn, 
<br>
 checked the mailbox, saw the clock, 
<br>
 and noticed half my life was gone. 
<br>
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			<title>Backyard Triumph</title>
			<guid>https://www.firstthings.com/article/2008/08/004-backyard-triumph</guid>
			<link>https://www.firstthings.com/article/2008/08/004-backyard-triumph</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2008 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
			
			<description><![CDATA[<p> Truant from April chores 
<br>
 I daydream in a chair 
<br>
 beneath a tree that scatters 
<br>
 its petals when it stirs, 
<br>
 the way a girl might scatter 
<br>
 blossoms before a litter 
<br>
 that brings a self-made god 
<br>
 exultant down her road, 
<br>
 while Calvinistic bees 
<br>
 insist that glory&rsquo;s brief. 
<br>
 Extend the allegory: 
<br>
 should petals fall before me? 
<br>
 I&rsquo;ve not been made aware 
<br>
 of having won a war, 
<br>
 and I did not design 
<br>
 a bridge or new vaccine. 
<br>
 The leaves against my fence 
<br>
 betray my indolence. 
<br>
 This fragrant celebration 
<br>
 might be for anyone. 
<br>
 I know it&rsquo;s undeserved 
<br>
 but that has not deterred 
<br>
 me from taking pleasure 
<br>
 in the soft spring weather. 
<br>
 The triumphs that I seek 
<br>
 are held for their own sake, 
<br>
 and shower us with grace 
<br>
 like petals on the grass. 
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			<title>Pumpkin Hurling </title>
			<guid>https://www.firstthings.com/web-exclusives/2007/11/pumpkin-hurling</guid>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
			
			<description><![CDATA[<p>Every Columbus Day
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