The New York Times today offers a review of a new television show which centers around the lives and careers of four young, unhappy New York women. Though the back page of the arts section features a typically suggestive full-page advertisement for Girls, what’s rather remarkable is the way in which the actual review, written by critic Alessandra Stanley, gently but surely indicts the series, and (even more so) the cultural conditions which make such a series plausible and relevant today:
For all the talk of equality, sexual liberation and independence, the love lives of these young women are not much more satisfying than those of their grandmothers. Their professional expectations are, if anything, even lower.
[A main character's] liaison with Adam (Adam Driver), an out-of-work actor, is debasing.
Adam lets her visit his apartment for sexual gratification—his own—and ignores her desires; most of his sexual fantasies seem borrowed from video games and porn videos. He is just as callous about her feelings, grabbing her stomach rolls and asking why she doesn’t lose weight.
Those sex scenes are shocking not because they are graphic, though they are, but because the sex is so unsexy: they are clinical and [cold].
Were this review not appearing in the Times, one could almost be forgiven for thinking it was a press release from the Patriotic Alarmed Mothers of America, or some such organization. The reviewer even confesses to appreciating traditionalist impulses a bit further on in the article:
The depiction of slacker life in New York, which includes tattoos, drugs, casual sex and abortions, is presented with wry humor, but it could easily be interpreted as a cautionary tale written by the religious right: the lifestyles of these modern women, untethered to responsibility, faith or morality, are parables that could scare Amish youth away from Rumspringa and wayward Mormons back into their temple garments.
Of course, as the reviewer notes, the series still takes every opportunity to push whatever boundaries remain circumscribing the public depiction of such activities. But perhaps this series–evidently foreordained as some sort of touchstone for the Millennial generation–is useful for what it reveals about our exhaustion with the legacy of the sexual revolution. Girls appears on the scene like a Thermidorian Reaction, hailed as revolutionary for being tired of the revolutionary ideals and bitter at the terror they’ve wrought. After the initial shock, the predictable (though diminishing) fuss and the critical and morbid interest in such obscenity comes the strange, terminal feeling of boredom.
Boredom is in some ways an indicator of profound unhappiness, even a kind of lamentation. It’s a surface manifestation of the restlessness of our hearts, an indication of the emptiness of throwing ourselves into fits of passion when our deepest longings remain unmoored from meaningful (or, in this case, really any) answers. And while boredom doesn’t necessarily point to the Cross, it does, sooner or later, force us to make decisions and re-evaluate our circumstances. So perhaps the emerging awareness of our collective boredom, even if it comes in vulgar little packages like this TV show, provides a possible opportunity for renewal.




April 13th, 2012 | 5:28 pm
I note that Judd Apatow is the Executive Producer. He also produced the movie Superbad. While that movie is crass it also has a weirdly pro-abstinence anti-teen drinking vibe. Bad things happen to teen who try and drink or have sex, good things happen to teens who abstain and don’t drink.
April 14th, 2012 | 2:10 pm
Hmm. I think you misinterpret the critical reaction. It seems to me that this article, and another one I read last week (in Slate, iirc), are criticizing the show for not portraying promiscuity as being, like, totally awesome, and therefore for somehow advancing the “conservative agenda” (cue scary music).
April 15th, 2012 | 3:25 pm
I’ve never seen “Girls,” but I’m a regular viewer of “Californication” which, from what you’re saying, sounds like it has a similar vibe. The characters constantly engage in casual, meaningless sex (portrayed with almost X-rated graphicness), yet they are mostly miserable, and the few brief moments of happiness they attain is when they are with family (however dysfunctional) and friends (however bizarre) that they love. It also implies that the source of their misery is their unwillingness or inability to remain in stable relationships with those family and friends and their tendency to use sex as a substitute for love. Could this be a trend?
April 26th, 2012 | 11:25 pm
The only thing gross here is misrepresentation. Lena Dunham is depicting these social mores to have us see and understand them. Yes, she is also satirizing the absurdity. It seems like people are so programmed and narrow minded after years of lies and crap about society, and about men & women, that they can only frame this in a way that it is moralizing against these things she shows, or that these things are so sad and the generation whos cultural milleu this is are also sad. No, shes showing very specific behavior, and yes its absurd, it is a LOT of things all together…things are not so simple in life and humans are not so pat that you can wrap up their lives or culture in black and white , with a bow on top.
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